More explosive than a box of TNT but still interesting and fun to watch. Enjoy!
Aka it’s all just the matter of perspective… and there’s nothing worse than not knowing that we actually agree with each other.
For me as a person who researches gender stereotypes and gender ideology in advertising, it is always fun to watch how brutally misogynic advertising used to be once upon a time…
Here’s the best of the worst sexist ads in the history of Anglo-Saxon advertising:
Taken from: http://www.icanhasinternets.com/2010/05/25-horribly-sexist-vintage-ads/vintageads25/
Cristina Muntean, a former editor-in-chief of Czech Business Weekly really inspired me tonight at the Prague networking meeting with her captivating speech on strategic reputation management basically summing it all up into one single phrase:
But what got me thrown much more was the almost infectious optimism of a person who has managed to overcome all the obstacles in their career and was energized by the happiness she radiated all around the room. Especially in Prague where people are generally held back with skepticism this is really rare to see: a person who is literately putting it all out there in hoping that others will follow, overcome their inner fears and change their lives for the better as well.
I certainly will think about it, and already now can say that I will strive to find answers to some of the questions she posed in order to live a happier and more rewarding life. And actually, you all should do the same…
Ok, so the bullets (however tedious they might sound – but hey the most effective and truthful things in life usually are tediously simple…) she posed are:
1. Find out who you are. Not a cliche at all. You’d be surprised how many people in their 40s or 50s still haven’t gotten that one figured out… Take your time and think about it. Once you do have that one off your table, you are one half ready to become a person you always wanted to be.
2. Find out what you want. That is what you want out of your life, others and most importantly from yourself. This is the second half of the task in order to live a happier and more fruitful life. Cristina said that the poisonous negative energy radiating from most of people is mostly result of their unhappiness and inability of making the right decisions. Which leads to the third point…
3. Do not suffocate yourself with prolonging the dilemma. Choose, make a decision and move forward to your future. In staying within the dilemma situation you are only robbing yourself off the energy you might actually invest into creating something new and much more rewarding. Again, truthful to unproductive work environment, boring job tasks, unhealthy relationships or add whichever else is valid for you…
4. Be happy. Once you get over the first three bullets, the feeling of weightlessness and freedom should occur spontaneously quite soon after. Remember that happy people always know why they are happy if you ask them, it’s only the unhappy people who can not articulate the reason of their unhappiness. The weight will collapse off your shoulders and you will finally be able to breathe again. And now with knowing who you are and where you wanna go in life and what you want to succeed in. And that feeling is simply priceless!
Economy of a relationship is essentially opposite to that of a market.
On the market, we mostly invest in what can generate us the biggest revenue in the future.
In relationships, we usually invest most in those who give us back the least in trying to outweigh the natural imbalance and make the relationship work.
Thus the dynamics of market and human relationships is opposite.
Interesting enough considering that markets are only constituted of people as well…
Lately, I’ve been thinking about the meaning of success. What does it really mean to be successul and how do we tell whether we are successful or not.
Success’ nature I think is very similar to the nature of happiness, for which there are 2 moments which are incredibly truthful:
1) We learn we are happy upon losing the source of happiness, thus we can ever only know we were happy but not that we are.
2) It is about the pursuit. Happiness really is about the pleasant feelings of self-fulfillment along the way, it kind of evaporates once we get where we wanted and then have to set up new goals for ourselves in order to become happy again.
In my perspective, success is a) something completely subjective and b) completely random as usually the more we push in order to become successful, the less we actually succeed in getting there.
So it’s really much more about the path we follow and means we take in order to achieve our goals rather then the eventual results of our endeavors.
Which reminds me of a really nice article I encountered at CreativeSomething.com blog and which I entirely agree with:
“Creative people need to create, it’s regularity what makes us feel purpose in life. So even if we do sell that big painting, or if we create something that millions of people around the world use, the measure of success isn’t there.
Sure, if you do any of these things you’re going to feel great, but after some time the feeling will fade and you’ll realize that you have to keep creating in order to pursue that feeling of “success”.
The real measure of creative success, I think, is the ability to create without restrictions. To spend your days doing the work that makes you happy, even when it fails.
That’s real creative success: the ability to create unrestricted.“
So people get out there and create because only creation leads to happiness and success. But not in its outcome valued by others, but in the perpetual creation enriching ourselves. From the inside.